Waiting to see if we have been wise…
It is easy to judge a decision as being wise after the fact, when the outcome and impact is visible. But is there a way to mindfully make wise decisions? I really believe there is. Here are the principles that seem to be operating in the process of wise decision making, as gleaned from my wisdom research and interviews with identified wise people:
When making decisions, wise people…
• …consider options that meet the needs of other people- not just themselves (although they ALSO think of their needs-it is not a zero sum game).
• …consult a few key advisors, friends, mentors (they don’t consult every Tom, Dick and Harry).
• …choose learning and change over comfort (many of their decisions will demand they learn something new or move into uncharted territory).
• …”listen” for the answer which ultimately comes from within.
• …are drawn to options that feel “positive”.
• …resist nostalgia and the pull of the past (they look forward and can be far sighted).
• …execute quietly and without regret.
What are the wise decisions you’ve made in your lifetime so far? As you look back on these decisions, what was your process? Please share! Lets illuminate the process of wise decision making together.
Best always,
Elle
www.wisdomout.com
elle@wisdomout.com
